Author: Nancy Werlin
“Lucy is seventeen when she discovers that she is the latest recipient of a generations-old family curse that requires her to complete three seemingly impossible tasks or risk falling into madness and passing the curse on to the next generation. Unlike her ancestors, though, Lucy has family, friends, and other modern resources to help her out. But will it be enough to conquer this age-old evil? “
Lucy is a high school student, an athlete, looking forward to her first school dance. Her dreams are shattered when the date ends in a rape. Lucy winds up pregnant. So far, it’s a pretty straightforward story. However, Lucy is not your average teenager. She’s a victim of a curse. She finds out that she’s got just 9 months to break the curse or another generation will have to suffer the same fate. She’s determined to save herself and her daughter.
I had mixed feelings on this book. I know that some readers objected to Lucy’s reaction to finding out she was pregnant, but I felt that it was a personal matter and her choice made sense given her situation. That doesn’t mean it would be right for everyone or that I thought the author was trying to say that it was right for everyone.
The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands by Dr. Laura Schlessinger –
I would never have read this book if it hadn’t been chosen for my book group. Even now, I can’t believe I read this garbage! It should make for an interesting discussion!
The reason I gave it 1.5 stars is that she did actually make two good points (along with all the baloney).
First – your husband is not a mind-reader. Tell him what’s going on. Don’t expect him to guess and then be mad when he guesses wrong.
Second – if you are having trouble, talk to your husband first, then a therapist or clergyman. Don’t talk to your girlfriends. Male bashing is NOT the way to solve your problems. It may relieve a little stress and help you vent, but it will backfire and cause even more hostility. Your husband deserves your loyalty.
Other than that, I really couldn’t believe that this kind of stuff was being advocated in this day and age! For example, don’t expect your husband to help with the housework. After all, you don’t go to work with him and help him with his job, do you? (It’s not like women have anything to do besides stay at home and clean the house, right?) And don’t get too fat – you have no right to overeat. And don’t ever tell your husband no. He has a right to expect sex whenever he wants it.
As I talked the book over with my husband (of 26 years, almost. We must be doing something right!) we agreed that the most annoying part of the book is that she sticks men and women in these stereotypical gender roles and just leaves it at that. Men are big, dumb, simple creatures who basically want a hot meal, a hot wife, and a pat on the back. Women are supposed to be content to keep the house clean and please their man.
And yet, I see that other women have rated this book much higher than I have. What can I say? This is NOT the kind of relationship I want. It’s not the kind I want for my children. I want them to see a healthy partnership, where each partner is loved and valued as an INDIVIDUAL, not as a type, and where both partners are allowed, even encouraged, to express their feelings and desires and have them validated. Where there is a firm commitment to working together to solve problems when they come up, where neither partner is responsible for all the work in any category, but where flexibility is stressed. I DO NOT recommend this book in any circumstances. I think it perpetuates an unhealthy definition of marriage and if followed will cause a lot more problems than it resolves.
In this updated review, I want to include some information about the author. Dr. Laura Schlessinger is indeed a doctor, but not of psychology or social work. Her degree is in physiology. She is licensed in social work from the state of California, but only got some training in the subject.
She also had a conservative talk radio show that aligned with Glenn Beck, Rush Limbaugh, and the like. She’s had a messy personal life with directly contradicts the advice she gave in her column and show. She is an anti-feminist, in case you can’t tell. She’s also made anti-gay comments and racial comments, apologizing afterward, but with an air of “sorry you’re mad” rather than “sorry I said it in the first place.”
This was one of the most popular reviews I did at the time. It still makes me ill that she was able to profit from such negative and destructive advice. If you are hearing stuff like this, turn away. Marriage is a partnership between two individuals, not between categories or stereotypes. If you’re having trouble, talk to each other first, then to a credentialed therapist.
Remember that book I gushed about this fall called Last Star Burning? I was able to get an interview with debut author Caitlin Sangster! I’m so excited to post it here for you.
Here’s the brief synopsis of the book:
Sev is branded with the mark of a criminal—a star burned into her hand. That’s the penalty for being the daughter of the woman who betrayed their entire nation.
Now her mother’s body is displayed above Traitor’s Arch, kept in a paralyzed half sleep by the same plague that destroyed the rest of the world. And as further punishment, Sev is forced to do hard labor to prove that she’s more valuable alive than dead.
When the government blames Sev for a horrific bombing, she must escape the city or face the chopping block. Unimaginable dangers lurk outside the city walls, and Sev’s only hope of survival lies with the most unlikely person—Howl, the chairman’s son. Though he promises to lead her to safety, Howl has secrets, and Sev can’t help but wonder if he knows more about her past—and her mother’s crimes—than he lets on.
But in a hostile world, trust is a luxury. Even when Sev’s life and the lives of everyone she loves may hang in the balance.
Now for the interview!
I’d like to thank Caitlin for taking the time to do this interview. Really, she was just lovely and you should all check out her book!
Any of you who are regular readers of my blog know that I love Kindle Unlimited. Being you know, a speedy reader, I go through books pretty quickly when I’m in the mood, too quickly for me to be able to buy them or get them from the library. With my Kindle Unlimited membership, I can read all the books I want (from a limited number of titles, granted) and it only costs one flat monthly fee, which is less than I’d spend on one book.
Comics and graphic novels are kind of tricky though. I love them, but I never know where to start and my library only has a few. I don’t feel like spending lots of money on them either. Still, I wasn’t sure that I wanted to join Comixology or not.
This month, I decided to go for a trial 30 day membership and see if I liked it. Well, yeah! I’ve been doing nothing but reading comics for two solid days now. I got through all the issues of the Runaways that they have on Unlimited, lots of Wonder Woman, Luke Cage, She Hulk, and this graphic novel called The Sword, pictured above, about a woman’s quest for vengeance against the gods that killed her family.
I don’t know yet whether it’s really worth $6/month. That doesn’t sound like much, but when you add up the subscriptions and stuff plus the fact that the selection included in that price is MUCH more limited than the Kindle subscription, I’m not sure it would be worth the cash.
I am looking for more recommendations though. If there’s a comic or graphic novel that you loved, please tell me about it! I love the superhero stuff but I’m willing to explore beyond that. List your faves in the comments.
Imagine that your two main characters are arranging to meet for the first time in a crowded place. How would they describe themselves so that they would be recognized? What do they say they look like? What do they wear? How do they act? How accurate are they in how they perceive themselves? Would the other person be able to recognize them from their description? How do they perceive the other?
This exercise lets you dig deeper into the appearance and demeanor of your character, while giving you a look at their psychology as well.
Title: White Water, Black Death
Author: Shaun Ebelthite
Publication Date: September 5, 2017
Genre: Thriller/ Suspense/ Mystery
“A cruise ship is the perfect target for a biological attack”
These are the chilling words emailed to the Seaborne Symphony in the mid-Atlantic.
Magazine editor Geneva Jones has been sent on the trans-Atlantic cruise to help secure a major advertising agreement from the CEO of the cruise line Rachel Atkinson, but her efforts to win her over are curtailed by a mysterious crew death. Geneva suspects foul play. Rachel insists its suicide. A former investigative journalist, Geneva can’t resist digging deeper, but what she finds is far more devastating. There’s an Ebola outbreak on the ship, everyone is trapped aboard and Rachel is trying to keep it secret.
Geneva knows enough about Ebola to be terrified, but she’s also onto the biggest story of her career. As panic surges through the ship, she becomes fixated on a single question. How was the virus brought aboard? The answer is worse than she could have imagined, and the greatest exposé she’ll ever get, if she can only prove it.
Aaron Atkinson is taking a cruise because his mom insisted that he come along. He doesn’t mind, of course. At least, he’s having fun until the storm hits and a waitress dies. They also rescue a stranded boat in the storm. Then the deaths on board start. Aaron can tell something is wrong, but he doesn’t know what to do. Meanwhile, reporter Geneva Jones is under pressure to both get the story and make the cruise line look good. She has the sense that she’s on to the story of her career, but is she being manipulated? Who can she trust?
The story is told from various POV, including Aaron Atkinson, adopted son of the CEO; a young housekeeper with a child; Geneva Jones, a reporter digging for the dirt; and the captain of the cruise ship. That lets the author tell the whole story, which would be impossible if you only followed one character. It made the book more suspenseful as I waited to see what would happen next.
I enjoyed this book, but I must say it didn’t make me any more anxious to take a cruise! The behind the scenes look at what went on, even when things went right, still made me realize how much the cruise industry exploits its workers. When things go wrong, it was truly horrifying. Normal food poisoning is enough of a trouble, but a real plague, with no way to get to safety – that’s the stuff of nightmares.
I had the chance to read this one for free in exchange for an honest review, but my opinions remain entirely my own.
This book is available for free from Kindle Unlimited right now or for purchase at the links below.
I know most of you are on Good Reads, Twitter, and Instagram. But have you heard about Library Thing? I love it over there! It’s a great site for serious book lovers. It also has a way to catalog your library, features libraries of famous writers, fun facts, and a great community.
One of the boards I follow is a 2018 Category Challenge. The idea is to organize your reading into categories that you choose and then share what you’ve been reading. How many categories you have, what they are, and how many books you read in each category is up to you. I’ve done the challenge several years, even hosted in once, and I really enjoy it.
Here are my categories – (I went with a “crime” theme)
Cold cases – book that have been on the shelf too long
First Timers – new books
Repeat offenders – rereads
Serials – books in a series
Isolated occurrence – stand alone titles
Minor infractions – YA and kids books
Eyewitness accounts – nonfiction books
Advance warning – ARCs
Most Wanted – best books of the year
Petty crime – boring and DNF
I figure that will cover everything I read next year. BTW, if you want to check it out, I’m CMBohn over there.
I just wanted to give you a head’s up to an exciting author interview I will be doing next week! The author is Caitlin Sangster, writer of Last Star Burning which I featured in a giveaway. You won’t want to miss it!
Plenty of time to enter any of these contests. Good luck!
January 2017 Genre: Fiction Theme: Family Matters Website: Glimmer Train Deadline: January 2, 2017 Entry Fee: $18 Prize: First place – $2,500 Genre: Fiction, Nonfiction, or Poetry Theme: N/A Website: Glass Mountain Magazine Deadline: January 9, 2017 Entry Fee: $5 Prize: $100 Genre: Fiction Theme: N/A Website: Literal Latte Deadline: January 15, 2017 Entry Fee: […]